Musings from George

How does anyone blog daily?
July 2, 2011, 11:49 pm
Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags:

So much has happened since I last blogged, and somehow the world has continued to turn and everything is working well. A few thoughts…
– I have done a lot of volunteer work in my life. I have been a Boy Scout, I have worked (paid) for the Youth Conservation Corps digging hiking trails for the public, I have volunteered as a coach for a high school team, a college team, a T-ball team and a youth soccer team. I have taught reading lessons in K-5, mentored high school kids in chemistry, and did the equivalent of Junior Achievement for a high school on the wrong side of the tracks.
I have fed the homeless (many times). I have built houses with Habitat for Humanity (many times, many places). I have given money to charities since I first earned a living wage — not 10% of my wages, but enough to get into the Leaders Circle or the Founders Circle or the … you get the point.
People assume that I must feel saintly because of this, and assume that I am affecting many young lives in a meaningful way. But I don’t believe that, and I don’t like anyone assuming that I believe that. We each give what we want to give — time or money. We give what we want to, and should not make any assumptions about the way people feel about receiving it. I can barely remember my elementary school teachers’ names, let alone any one lesson — so why should I assume my twenty hours tutoring Rafael are going to change his life? Why should I assume that playing water polo for me for four years in Enumclaw shaped anyone’s life? I don’t. Why do others assume that my footprint or fingerprint would be so strong, when I don’t assume that??
We who volunteer do it because we like people. We like even homeless people, or kids from poor homes and bad neighborhoods. We do it for selfish reasons — I like winning a game, and I take some pride in the fact that these kids knew nothing about water polo / baseball / soccer when I started with them. I will not win a World Series, and I am not looking for the next Derek Jeter… I am simply happy to coach my son’s team and to see kids get better. I am honestly happy to lose a close game rather than win a game that isn’t close.
Short summary: don’t assume I am doing good things because I am a good person, and don’t imply great results. I do what I do because I have fun doing it, and where I can I hope that people around me are having fun too.
Homework assignment: go out and volunteer. Comment on how it made you feel, and what impact you feel you have had. Picking up trash by the side of the road is fine, but buying dinner for the guy who isn’t allowed to go into McDonald’s is much more rewarding. He won’t bite you, and he will be grateful. Don’t give him five dollars to buy something you wouldn’t buy — buy him a Big Mac, and know that the calories are actually good for him. Really, I did that — wearing a suit and working for McKinsey. I may not be your typical volunteer, but I promise you there are many opportunities to do what I do and to feel good about it.



Leave a Comment so far
Leave a comment

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: